I'm a bit irritated at the BF this afternoon.
I was very excited about having a weekend off, the few weekends I get off and he made a point that we would be finally spending a whole day together for a date. Something I look forward as well. Unfortunately that day, a pre-scheduled dance workshop by one of his friends and a great influence on his life is on the same Sunday.
In the beginning he makes the point that he would not go to the workshop because of my lack of weekends. I was conflicted hearing this, although I appreciated the sentiment. We argued a little about not having days off and we both understand that we are trying to compromise and make do with not having official "dates". He also made such a big deal of wanting a whole day off, something I wasn't as concerned with although appreciated the sentiment.
He decided to make a compromise saying that he would try to free his Saturday so that we would have the whole Saturday instead of Sunday, since he only had one lesson that day. With this compromise I was happy with and, again, appreciated the sentiment.
With this I am messaged again that his boss was unhappy with the idea of him moving the lesson so that Saturday was free and I understood that he would want to go to the workshop, therefore I was fine with postponing the whole day together and working around the workshop as usually as with the workshop there I do not consider it a whole day.
What irritated me was the fact that he continued to ask me if I wanted to go to the workshop and that him not going to the workshop was for me. I was unhappy with that. It made it sound like him not going to the workshop would then be my fault. The blame shifting as he tells the coach "Because my gf wants to go on a date, I can't go to your workshop." And that pissed me off. If he wanted to go then he should go.
Then he says that he's trying to prioritize me over dance and that irritated me even more when he says it as if I am forcing him to do something he doesn't want to just for the sake of making he happy. And frankly that made me more irritated. I am fine with postponing our whole "date" as planning around something is not what I consider a whole "date". Yes, it is still a date although not the kind of date I would be very excited about. And true, I am a little disappointed that the date will need to be postponed, but I rather postpone the date rather than postpone the workshop where it is more of a social and work obligation for him.
I'm a bit irritated that my view was not so much addressed. I don't mind the situation being compromised, although I am irritated that my views is not so much addressed.
[EDIT] Well... I'm glad he knows that I would rather do something completely different then half-ass a trip to SF. What's the point of going to the city if you can't fully enjoy the city for what it offers. Well we've come up with a conclusion which I am glad. Yay next Sunday.
Tuesday, October 17, 2017
Saturday, October 14, 2017
Rocking Out to Old Anime Music
Last night was amazing. It really is the moments I have together with him where we share our past interests and find interest in each other is why I believe we fit so well.
We can talk about our future, but being able to share each others interests without any hesitation and being able to be ourselves is what I love about our relationship. I was so excited listening to my favorite anime openings that it made me want to create a list of my top 10 animes of all time, just so I have a chance to really see if whenever I say "10 top animes" really add up to 10 animes.
1. Kuroshitsuji
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Y9nulcg3Yw
This is a no brainer. Kuroshitsuji is my absolute favorite series of all time and I will not let anyone bash it. The characters arehawt interesting and well-designed. The overlying plot is engaging and makes you want to understand more and the setting is unique.
2. Hyouka
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BogtGNnA-9k
This series was my favorite autumn watches during my last year before I left for Taiwan. I recommend this series as someone who likes cute girls, good animation, and a fun whimsical plot and story. The characters are engaging and you end up loving the characters so much more and want to see how they interact with each other.
3. Death Parade
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UjjTMNDZi-A
This series starts you off with this exciting opening before breaking you heart with intense and heavy topics relating to death and morality. This was a fun and interesting series to watch and finish. You wouldn't be watching for anything more or anything less.
4. Yuri on Ice!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORDXWrL5EuQ
The to watch anime of Autumn 2016. It was ahead of its time and had a wonderful story arc for the main characters with a wonderful soundtrack. It also sparked my love and fangirling over Yuzuru Hanyu and a interested in ice skating again.
5. Natsume Yujujinchou
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-lNqHleBzSM
This series is a series that not many people take the time to watch. The music isn't particular memorable but it gives you all the feels. They talk about a boy's tragic life and backstory without making you feel like his life is hell. He makes the most of what he has and appreciates what other people offer him. Everyone should follow Natsume's example and enjoy this feel good anime with engaging characters and comfortable soundtrack.
6. Clannad
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0I6YfDGDOc4
My favorite romance anime of all time. As much as I enjoy the shoujo romance, Clannad faces real issues and has a heartwretching ending that you can't help but get emotional watching after following the characters and each of their hardships. You can only wish they all get their happily ever after.
7. Touken Ranbu Katsugeki
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vge_YDskyR0
This was a silly anime that was on my list just for the hot guys, but I was honestly surprised by how much I enjoyed the series that it made it to my top. The animation was amazing and I do enjoy the history link between the storyline and the characters. It makes you want to learn more and become cultured while you're researching the series.
8. Gintama
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=REHaJZgWwxY
Although I don't follow this series as closely anymore, the rewatchability of the series is very high for me. It's very laid back and humorous but also gives you a bass-ass serious, action packed arc every now and then, satisfying both sides of my anime needs.
9. Haikyuu!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2---3Iysnqg
Another one of those sports animes that pump you up and you fall in love with every single character. It's a tame action anime where sometimes you stand up cheering for the character's victories as you watch them grow and reach their goals. By 9 this is reaching its limit where the anime here can be easily replaced, although for the time being it was sit comfortably as one of my top animes.
10. Katekyo Hitman Reborn
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4PgT3FpeZY
Although I was horribly disappointed by the manga, this series engaged me enough that I read the manga to the end! That must mean something already. It's one of those series where you love every single character and the main character is not all powerful therefore needs the joint force of everyone to defeat an enemy. Almost a shounen magical girl. It's how obsessed I was with the series is what gets it on the list.
We can talk about our future, but being able to share each others interests without any hesitation and being able to be ourselves is what I love about our relationship. I was so excited listening to my favorite anime openings that it made me want to create a list of my top 10 animes of all time, just so I have a chance to really see if whenever I say "10 top animes" really add up to 10 animes.
1. Kuroshitsuji
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Y9nulcg3Yw
This is a no brainer. Kuroshitsuji is my absolute favorite series of all time and I will not let anyone bash it. The characters are
2. Hyouka
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BogtGNnA-9k
This series was my favorite autumn watches during my last year before I left for Taiwan. I recommend this series as someone who likes cute girls, good animation, and a fun whimsical plot and story. The characters are engaging and you end up loving the characters so much more and want to see how they interact with each other.
3. Death Parade
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UjjTMNDZi-A
This series starts you off with this exciting opening before breaking you heart with intense and heavy topics relating to death and morality. This was a fun and interesting series to watch and finish. You wouldn't be watching for anything more or anything less.
4. Yuri on Ice!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORDXWrL5EuQ
The to watch anime of Autumn 2016. It was ahead of its time and had a wonderful story arc for the main characters with a wonderful soundtrack. It also sparked my love and fangirling over Yuzuru Hanyu and a interested in ice skating again.
5. Natsume Yujujinchou
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-lNqHleBzSM
This series is a series that not many people take the time to watch. The music isn't particular memorable but it gives you all the feels. They talk about a boy's tragic life and backstory without making you feel like his life is hell. He makes the most of what he has and appreciates what other people offer him. Everyone should follow Natsume's example and enjoy this feel good anime with engaging characters and comfortable soundtrack.
6. Clannad
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0I6YfDGDOc4
My favorite romance anime of all time. As much as I enjoy the shoujo romance, Clannad faces real issues and has a heartwretching ending that you can't help but get emotional watching after following the characters and each of their hardships. You can only wish they all get their happily ever after.
7. Touken Ranbu Katsugeki
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vge_YDskyR0
This was a silly anime that was on my list just for the hot guys, but I was honestly surprised by how much I enjoyed the series that it made it to my top. The animation was amazing and I do enjoy the history link between the storyline and the characters. It makes you want to learn more and become cultured while you're researching the series.
8. Gintama
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=REHaJZgWwxY
Although I don't follow this series as closely anymore, the rewatchability of the series is very high for me. It's very laid back and humorous but also gives you a bass-ass serious, action packed arc every now and then, satisfying both sides of my anime needs.
9. Haikyuu!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2---3Iysnqg
Another one of those sports animes that pump you up and you fall in love with every single character. It's a tame action anime where sometimes you stand up cheering for the character's victories as you watch them grow and reach their goals. By 9 this is reaching its limit where the anime here can be easily replaced, although for the time being it was sit comfortably as one of my top animes.
10. Katekyo Hitman Reborn
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4PgT3FpeZY
Although I was horribly disappointed by the manga, this series engaged me enough that I read the manga to the end! That must mean something already. It's one of those series where you love every single character and the main character is not all powerful therefore needs the joint force of everyone to defeat an enemy. Almost a shounen magical girl. It's how obsessed I was with the series is what gets it on the list.
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